Thoughts Sunday, August 06, 2006

Thoughts
Current mood: sympathetic
Category: Romance and Relationships


What is cheating? Have you ever cheated on someone? Have you ever been cheated on? Can you cheat on your own heart?

do you stay with someone just because you don't want to hurt them?

is cheating a glimpse of someone?

a stare, thoughts, fantasy, daydream of someone?

is it a fleeting attraction?

when you talk to someone, write them a letter when you meet them over the internet? what about instant messenger? is if cheating if you don't like them that way?

does the conversation count? does it matter what it is about?

is cheating smelling someone's hair, giving them a loving look, or smiling when they are around?

is it when you have someone locked in your heart, but not your mind? Is it when you have them in your mind, but keep them out of your heart?

is it when you do things on purpose so you can see them or talk to them, even if only a moment.

is it when you go out of your way to help someone?

do you ever think of your lover?

is it when you get disappointed when you don't see them when you think you would?

is cheating a deep crush? or a fleeting crush? is a crush when you like someone and want to be with them? is a crush when you think about them a lot? is a crush different than liking someone? can you help having a crush?

is it having a photo of someone you like? taking a photo of someone you like? having a photo taken by the one you like?

does it matter what is on the photo?

is cheating when you like someone? is it when you like them for a moment, or when you like them for a long time?

is it only when you act out on your crush or like?

is it just a kiss, giving out your phone number, or texting them? Do you tell them you are with someone? Do you care you are with someone?

do you cheat on yourself by staying with someone you don't love? have you ever been in love?

can you love someone you cheat on? can you love someone you cheat with?

is cheating soley having sex with someone else? What about going on a date, holding hands, buying each other gifts?

is cheating when someone hits on you? when you hit on them? is cheating when someone hits on you when you have no intentions of anything?

what about when you are hit on when you have no intentions, but you enjoy it anyway? is cheating when you purposely do things to get hit on, but have no intentions to go through with anything?

what about your thoughts, do they drift to the other person? what do you do? is it cheating when you dwell on those thoughts or does that not matter?

do you think of someone else when you are with your person?

why do you torture youself if you don't want to be in a relationship. do you stay together for the sake of circumstance? do you stay together for the sake of convenience?

are you afraid to leave someone because you might hurt them? don't you know you've already hurt them?

are you afraid they will hurt you?

are you afriad of hurting yourself?

does it hurt to cheat?

is cheating a conversation you have with someone you like? what do you talk about? do they know? what do you do about it?

is cheating other things, like sleeping, playing games, or hanging out with your friends more than you should? how much is too much?

how do you know you hurt someone? why do you cheat?

are they moody, messy, sickly? do you cheat because you can't help it? are you bored? do they not do enough for you? are you not lifted up enough by them? are you away from home for a long time? is the other person more attractive? do you want to get out, but don't know how? will your family be too disappointed in you?

do they work too much? are they home enough? is the ohter person more exciting? do you have more in common with them? do they have better tastes.

do you day dream about how life would be different if you were with someone else? are you stuck because of circumstance? are you afraid to commit.

do you not trust your mate?

do you trust yourself?

do you accuse your mate of doing things they don't do?

do you love them? why do you hurt them?

how long have you cheated? does it happen out of circumstance? what constitutes cheating? is it just in your heart? or your mind? or both?

is it only physical or can it be mental?

is cheating what society says cheating is or does it depend on the individual?

just a few thoughts...

Comments:

This is many questions that make me think about tons of stuff. Did you know that he was cheating at this time? This was about a month ago? I am thinking of you, call me anytime Aryan. Posted by Ashley on Wednesday, September 06, 2006 - 9:31 AM