Adam and Other Family: Sunday October01, 2006

Adam and Other Family:
Current mood: infuriated
Category: Life

Adam and Other Family:
Sunday October01, 2006
SO LET ME GET THIS STRAIGHT ADAM, YOU'RE BASICALLY SAYING BY YOUR BLOG COMMENT (i reposted below...) THAT IT'S MY FAULT THAT MARK IS A CHEATER BECAUSE I DIDN'T MAKE HIM HAPPY? WELL *NEWSFLASH* I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG AS FAR AS HIM BEING A LIAR AND CHEAT. IF HE HAD A PROBLEM WITH ME HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN A MAN AND TALKED WITH ME ABOUT IT.

Here's what Adam wrote about my last blog:
Absolutely Ridiculous! Grow Up! Pappy writes you a personal letter and you post it on the internet (and by the way , he IS very hurt by this) . I love how you set up "rules" thaen just do whatever you want. What happened to not bringing anymore on the internet? Wow. That lasted a whole week before you broke it. If Gavin has to change schools, it will be sad, but he won't have any problems making new friends as he is a terrific kid. It is NOT all Marks fault either. He went about it wrong, but if YOU made him truely happy, he would'nt had to look eslewhere for what makes him complete.

Um... lets see the last week here are things that have gone on the net that had to do with the "situation" that I DIDN'T POST....
Mark erased his, but on Adam's profile:
Like me or don't...this is just who I am. I'm the guy who will never text you and will not tell you good morning and every single night will not tell you sweet dreams. I'm the guy who will not text you and will never tell you "i miss you and wish you were here" just because I don't care. I'm the guy who will blindfold you, take you to the beach and leave you there. . I'm the guy who will laugh at you when you're crying and let you drown in your tears. I'm the guy who still thinks you're ugly with no makeup on, wearing sweats and a big t-shirt(jeez, make some effort). I'm the guy who will show up at your house with NBA2K7 and my brother when you aren't feeling well. I'm the guy who smacks you on the forehead. I'm the guy who actually falls asleep when you talk. I'm the guy who's excited all night because I'm looking forward to going to work. I'm the guy who gets heebie jeebies when I have to hold you . I'm the guy who can't help but throw up when you walk into the room. I'm the guy who's perfectly content with staying in and watching gladiator movies alone. I'm the guy who will always lie to you about where I'm going or where I've been or especially who I have been with(common sense there). I'm the guy who will bring you to entertain my friends and to parties to get you drunk. I'm the guy who's terrified of being seen with you by my friends. I'm the guy who is really concerned about your imperfections and will want you to go to therapy. I'M THE GUY WHO REALLY WANTS TO MAKE YOU THE HAPPIEST GIRL IN THE WORLD. Not all girls appreciate nice guys. There's not many left out there....so if you don't like what you see, get the heck off myspace!!!

How about Mark's world famous photoshop?


Here's a suggestion for those that don't really know what's going on... *ahem* Adam (who, by the way him & Mark are the main reasons I have to approve my comments before ppl post them because they are so nasty to me)

STAY OUT OF MY LIFE AND MY BUSINESS. I AM NO LONGER MARK'S CONCERN AND certaintly not yours, adam. I CAN SAY WHAT I WANT TO SAY. FREEDOM OF SPEECH. IF MARK CAN POST RUDE PHOTOSHOP PICS AND MEAN THINGS ABOUT ME ON HIS SITE- ADAM CAN MAKE FUN OF PEOPLE ON HIS- THEN I CAN WRITE WHAT I WANT ON MINE. I DON'T NEED CRAP FROM YOU ADAM OR MARK WHO HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH!!!!!!! LET ME BE AND LET ME DEAL WITH THIS THEY WAY I WANT TO.

RULES HA LIKE YOU KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT FOLLOWING RULES ADAM. THIS IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. AND YOU MAKING STUPID THINGS LIKE THAT ONLY MAKE YOU LOOK MORE LIKE A JERK. SO LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!

Comments:

Aryan,
I saw that picture on his site and couldnt believe it. Take it from someone who knew Anna in highschool. I am with you on your feelings towards her, some of her FRIENDS are with me on those feelings as well, she doesnt even know what people think about her which is sad. She should have told him to wait until he told you. I am a woman and i would have. That is all I will say. Second, heck, take it to the internet because (take it from me!) the internet is the ONLY way for people to know what is going on from YOUR point of view. (not to mention it gives ya a little soul food!) It is absolutely disgusting to think about what he did. DISGUSTING. Not falling in love with another woman, I mean that happens all the time, BUT going behind your back, and his children's back? And practically bragging about it like its so cool to do? And I dont even know him. My husband agrees. I asked him about it and he said he has heard about it from town at Triers. He thinks that that the guy needs to find a way to grow up, and if he fell in love with another woman he should have TOLD you first instead of sneaking around on you and stuff. Everyone practically knew he was, he should have just came out with it before. It makes me feel sick to my stomach for you if that tells you ANYTHING. I love ya Aryan and you know what? Those that love you are here for you through this all. Good luck with everything and people cant criticize you for finding a new man because you need someone to treat you good. Wow. I am just so surprised.
Have a better week my dear...
Al
Posted by Al on Monday, October 02, 2006 - 8:25 AM


I agree 100% with Allie, this world is absolutely pathetic. Why can't people talk anymore? What the fuck happened. Have we gotten so lazy that we can't even talk to someone when there is a problem? No, here is the new solution, lets just fuck people! Isn't that great! The cure all is sex now! What a great solution. NOT. Don't people get that it doesn't help anything. If only he had just talked to you about it. If only. COMMUNICATION. The one word that 95% of americans don't even know what it means anymore. I'm not really sure what's wrong with Mark's family, it is quite interesting to observe them though, but how can someone think it's right to just have sex with another person if they're unhappy in a marriage? Oh yea that's right, sex is the cure all!!! Sex means love now right? That's what is wrong with americans. They think sex is the answer to everything, but unfortunatly they don't even understand sex.

I apologize for going on this rant, but I have to let it out somehow.

Aryan, it kills me to see what they've done to you. This happened to my family as well. And my family is destroyed. All because of mis-communication. WHY CAN'T PEOPLE TALK? It infuriates me so much. I don't even want to get married, because marriage doesn't mean anything to people anymore. I mean, why get married if you think that fucking someone else is going to make you happy? WHY?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I shouldn't have to be afraid to get married. I shouldn't have to be afraid to get married! But I am. Because of people like Mark and Anna, and of course his fabulous and fucking crazy family. And people like my grandfather and my grandmothers' best friend. And so many others who have been hurt by people like them. Of course there will be temptation. But thats why we have a mouth, and we have a voice, and a brain to say NO!!!! Those people get no sympathy from me. I wish they would just fall off the face of the earth! Since they are only here to destroy it anyways, right?

I always thought, and please, anyone correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought that when you get married, they have these things called vows. And ya know, I thought they went something like, you're going to be with that person no matter what, and no other person, no matter what.

Aryan, I am so glad that you posted what Mark's brother wrote. As a psychology major, I know enough to say that you can't keep things inside to hurt you and eat you up! Your friends are helping you through this, and the only way we can is to see the whole picture. You don't need to suffer through this alone! It's so sad to see that it isn't just Mark treating you badly. It's his family too. The guilt, oh the guilt. It does bad things to people. If only they could just step back and see all that you've done for your family. All that you're still doing for your family right now! I mean, you took that asshole back into your home, after what he did to you, because his perfect family won't even take him in. How can they speak to you like that? Ya know, I think that if his family really wants to help him, and feel sorry for him, then they should take his piece of shit ass, and let him move in. Girl, you've done so much, how can they not see that? Well, I think they are just choosing to omit it! The guilt, oh the guilt! It does bad things to people.

Well I can't think about anything else to rant about, and I'm not sorry if I offended anyone, but please feel free to send me a message, I would love to chat with you! After all COMMUNICATION IS KEY!!!
Posted by ? on Tuesday, October 03, 2006 - 10:26 AM