Mark And Anna Saturday, September 09, 2006

Mark and Anna
Current mood: crushed
Category: Romance and Relationships

*sorry the contents of this blog was missing, comments were still available and posted*

Comments:


well,
this is my take of the situation.i CAN NOT even believe that shit. i saw anna and mark together in wal-mart and out of fear of saying what i thought at the time i bit my tounge my true feelings are this.
regaurdless of any so called feelings they had for each other, a "best friend" would not and should not ever rob a women of her husband and the father of her children. Anna if you read this and you might that is really disgustingly low of you to act like a friend and all the while being fucking around-with mark sorry for the swearing this is low for anyone, but for you this is the bottom of the barrel i never thought that you had it in you to do this to someone. whom you supposedly were tight w/ and was "your girl", i think that the two of you are totally selfish and bad things happen to people that are bad to others KARMA is a BITCH. and it will come back full circle Anna joked about being a horrible person to me. i dont think its funny, i dont think your right and i think that it is fucked up that you couldnt keep your god damn hands to yourself a friends husband or any married man for that matter should be an automatic no-no anna our friendship is based on what a loving a sweet girl i know that u can be i dont know what the hell is in your head right now and i dont agree with you for decisions.'
aryan i think that it is extremely brave of you to put yourself out there like this, you have my love and support always and while i cannot possible imagine what you are going through i am here for you. and on your side.
xoxo
kayla
p/s are you wearing lipstick??
Posted by Kayla on Saturday, September 09, 2006 - 2:29 AM


Wow Aryan. Wow. I cannot IMAGINE going through something like and you know what? You are handling it with such grace and poise and such a respectful way. You did not bash him or make him out to be something he is not, you simply stated the truth and for that I give you major thumbs up. I know we havent known eachother long but I am here for you as well...if you ever feel like you need to talk I am only a click away. You will realize through this struggle how many people you can count on. I just cannot believe it and I am so incredibly sorry. I know you dont need pity right now but you are amazing...beautiful....SO freaking intelligent...a GREAT mother....and what sounds to be a great wife. Good luck in all that happens, and please keep us posted wso we can think and pray for you. I love you sweetie!!!!!
<3 Ali
Posted by Ali on Saturday, September 09, 2006 - 8:34 AM


well girlie I can honestly say I know how your feeling. Of course that feeling will go away after a long while. I definetly think that mark has some major things that he may need a lot of therapy for but theres nothin that you can do for that. The only thing you can do now is be strong for your babies and remeber to make sure that they realize that they had absolutley nothing to do with the situtaion!! You need to always remeber that because no matter what the kids will look at you and remeber that you were the parent who never put any one before them and was always there for them and they will be more appreciative of that than anything else that anyone else in the world can do for them!!! The bottom line is whats done is done and you cannot change it. The only thing you have control over now is what to do with yourself and your children. I know right now it seems like the world is just shot straight to hell but it will get better I promise ya. If I can do it by myself with two kids then you can too. If you need anything at all let me know and I'll help ya as much as I can. just remeber what I said. You'll make it through and you'll be a better person for it girlie!! BTW so you know had I known what was going on before Delsa told me I so would have went runnin to you that way you could have nailed his ass first!!!!! Love ya girl
Posted by Samantha on Sunday, September 10, 2006 - 2:04 PM


I like how u just stated the facts, I hope that they do read this because maybe it will make them realise how they are not only affecting them but how they are affecting others. Sorry about yesterday, I got home about 9 last night. Maybe we can get together this weekend or something. I am going to baby shower then concert on sat but maybe we could hang out for a while on sunday. My baby shower is not the 24th anymore it has been moved to another date in Oct. I will just let her send invites.
Posted by Ashley on Monday, September 11, 2006 - 12:36 PM


Hello Aryan, I know I haven't really been a true friend, and more of an acquaintance, but that won't stop me from extending my ears for listening, or my shoulders for crying. I'll lend you a hand to pick you up, and be a force to keep you cool, but above all else, I know you are a strong person and will get through this. I was on the same side as you, much younger and more naive, but still had the rug ripped out from under me. I know you hurt, I relived some of that angst while reading your blog. There is nothing now, except a choice. You can choose to be upset, and hurt and continue to struggle with the why's and the what if's (believe me that shit is EASY to do), or you can pick up YOUR pieces to the puzzle, put YOUR life back in order and make the best of it. THERE ARE NOT UPSIDES...there is not positive. I am not gonna' candy coat it, but I know you will be even stronger for it. Trust is a hard pill to swallow, and when it comes back up, even harder to deal with the mess. Don't be afraid to take that leap later, remember for every Mark, there is an Aryan...there are other doors opening, and some are slamming shut... Take some time for you, reflect, grieve the loss, but most importantly find the courage to move on. I know alot of this is unsolicitated, and I know we don't truly know each other, but that won't stop me from being a human, and it shouldn't have stopped them...
Hugs...and even more Hugs
Kris
Posted by Kris on Tuesday, September 12, 2006 - 6:26 PM

I've tried to stay quiet to see how this played out, but I have reahed my limit. First off, I am not defending anything Mark did and am sorry for Aryan that all this is happening, becasue I do care for her as a sister, but they BOTH need to grow up. Aryan was very immature for bringing the situation to the internet, and letting her so-called "internet friends" make derogatory comments about Mark. This is still the man she loves, so those people just look like idiots and I assume just make the comments to make themselves feel better about their existance. They are not affected by this situation, so they all need to shut the hell up! Also, Aryan doesn't need to be having male friends over to the house, especially while the kids are there. In my opinion that is major double standard and is very low. What Mark did, doesn't give her permisson to do whatever she wants, she IS still married and Mark is still paying for the house. Finally, it seems like 80/20 is a big hang out for gossip queens. These immature twenty-something men and women need to mind their OWN business. It's amazing the get anything done over there. I'm not just bashing on Aryan , but Mark has had enough, yes he brought it on himself, but it is going to take the BOTH of them to find a solution to this problem. They BOTH need to start talking and working out a solution WHICHEVER it may be.

Sincerely, The World's Greatest Uncle
Posted by Adam on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 10:16 PM