If You Love Them Thursday, September 14, 2006

If you love them...
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Category: Romance and Relationships
If You Love Them
Thursday, September 14, 2006

For all of my family and friends and everyone else that knows or is curious-
Mark and I have decided to go through with the divorce. It is going to be very hard on us both, but we want what is best for both of us and our children. It is important they see us getting along and know we love them more than anything. We know we both love each other very much and that won't go away...
We talked a lot about things in our lives and the future and our children. We decided we will always be friends and will continue to do things as a family for our children. Mark and I will both be very active and loving parents. We always have and our children are happy to see us at least getting along.
We want a positive working environment, internet, and everyday life when it comes to the both of us. Please- no more comments to him... (or Anna)
Thanks to everyone who supports us and our decisions, we appreciate it all.
**editors note: I know it's been months and months and months since I originally posted this, but I wanted to let you all know that I was put up to this. It hurt a lot when I posted it... so we'll just have to see how this pans out, right?

Saddness

Comments:


***prayers
Posted by ? on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 8:45 AM


Thats the way me and my ex work it and it does great and the kids are alot better off knowing no matter what BOTH parents love them and that is all that is important!!! I'm glad to hear that you two are working it out that way instead of being hateful towards each other like so many others are when a divorce comes into play. You and Mark are making a good decision for your children and thats what counts. Good Luck I klnow you two will do great at this. God Bless and take care
Posted by Samantha on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 9:57 AM


That is great. Glad to hear that the 2 of you are talking and noone is being hateful. In the end your children will benefit greatly from that.
Good Luck with everything and I hope the divorce goes smoothly and quickly.
Posted by Jen on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 1:49 PM


It sounds like the two of you are taking a step in the right direction. It's always better to remain friends especially when kids are involved. I'm a step mother and I know how important it is to the kids to see their parents getting along. It helps to reassure them that everything is all right. So I think that the two of you remaining friends is a GREAT thing. Sometimes people get along better after a divorce than they did when they were married. I will keep your whole family in my prayers.
Posted by Andrea on Friday, September 15, 2006 - 8:58 PM